5 March 2025
St. Athanasius
Lutheran Church
Ash Wednesday Vienna, VA
“A Life of Standing With”
Text: 2
Corinthians 5:20b-6:10; Matthew 6:1-6, 16-21
Grace, mercy, and peace to you from God our Father,
and from our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. Amen.
I remember when I was little, my mother making me
take responsibility when I did something wrong. She would make me go to the
person I wronged - whether it was a neighbor, a stranger (if possible), or a
family member, and try to make it right. I was horrified. I never wanted to.
Far easier would be to cover it up, or plan a way of escape. And believe me, I
made such plans in my head! But my mother knew that easier is not better. That
sometimes the best things are the hardest things. I had to take responsibility.
I had to make it right, if I could. It was humiliating. But it taught me that
sin has consequences. And such repentance taught me far more than any
punishment could.
Now that I’m grown up - or like to think that I am!
at least physically - I still don’t like repenting, confessing, or admitting I’m
wrong. I still would rather cover up my sin or plan a way of escape. And I
suspect many of you are like that, too. So Mother Church brings us together
this day, to uncover what we’ve covered up, to block our way of escape, and
says: repent! Of all the ways, all the times you’ve hurt not just
others, but sinned against your God. And she does so not to punish us,
but because this is good for us. Not only to vomit out all that poison that is
making us sin-sick, but so that we can also hear those wonderful words of
Absolution - I forgive you - from the very God we’ve sinned against, so
repeatedly and so egregiously. Because while I can maybe make things right
between you and me when I sin against you, how can I make things right with
God? I can’t.
My prayers can’t. My alms can’t. My fasting can’t.
Because that’s not where my holiness comes from. If I think it does, then I’m belittling
my sin and the God I’ve sinned against, and I’m exalting myself and my
abilities, and that makes me the hypocrite. I may look holy, but I know
I’m not. It’s all a show. And my reward? Maybe the esteem of others like me,
but I’m robbing myself of hearing the words of forgiveness I need to hear. The
words that can truly make a difference and make me what I am not - holy.
Now when I was little and in trouble, my mother
would do something else as well - she wouldn’t just make me take responsibility
and go to the person I wronged and confess - she would go with me. At
first, I thought it was to make sure I actually did it! And maybe that was part
of the reason. But now I realize this, too: by going with me, she was taking
some of the shame upon herself. She taught me what to say, and if I didn’t
know what to say, she would give me the words. If I had to pay for something I’d
broken but didn’t have the money, she’d pay. She was my advocate. And she was
protecting me, too. If that person wanted a pound of my flesh, wanted to
retaliate - they’d have to go through her first! And you don’t mess with a mama
bear, right?
Today, Mother Church is doing some of those same
things. We are coming to repent together; we are not alone. She gives us
the words to speak. But she is not our advocate, nor can she pay
for us, nor can she protect us from the evil foe who wants not just a
pound of your flesh, but all of it, in hell. But she knows who is
our advocate, who did pay for us, and who does
protect us - and points us in that direction tonight. To Jesus, whose
blood and righteousness not only cover our sin and guilt and
shame, but take it away.
So we heard these words tonight from the Apostle
Paul: We implore you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. Don’t
cover up your sin. Don’t plan an escape. Repent. Because for our sake he
made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the
righteousness of God. Jesus took our sin and guilt and shame to make us
right again. That we be holy - not just on the outside, but on the inside. I
couldn’t do that. No one else could do that. Only Jesus.
And it wasn’t easy for Him. He was mocked and
rejected for hanging out with the likes of us. I may have dreaded facing those
I wronged, and for what - one sin? When Jesus was faced with bearing ALL
my sins of ALL my life, and ALL the sins of ALL people and all their
lives, ALL people who EVER lived, bearing those before His Father with us, for
us . . . His agony was so great His sweat was like great drops of blood.
And then when He was pounded onto the cross and hung there to die like a piece
of human garbage, many of the people He was doing that for laughed at Him. And
all Jesus had to say was: Father, forgive them. Words you also heard
tonight. And He does. And you are. Because of Jesus. The Father forgives. And
you are forgiven.
That’s not an escape. If we think it is, so
that we can just go back out and sin some more, then we are of those who, as
Paul said, receive the grace of God in vain. This is a new
life. A life of holiness, not sin. A life of service, not selfishness. It’s
a life of standing with. That’s one way to translate and think of
what Paul said next, when he said as servants of God - as the
redeemed of God - we commend ourselves in every way. And with
those words he’s not saying that they’re patting themselves on the back
- it’s not that kind of commendation. He’s saying that as servants of God, they’re
living a new life, giving themselves to, uniting themselves with,
or standing with these Christians in every way, and in every thing. The Corinthians are not alone. They are part
of a bigger body, the Church, the body of Christ.
And so, Paul says, we stand with you in
every way - and then he lists that long list of troubles that they are standing
with the Corinthians in: afflictions, hardships, calamities, beatings,
imprisonments, riots, labors, sleepless nights, and hunger. Not an easy
thing to do!
So how do they do that? By purity, knowledge,
patience, kindness, the Holy Spirit, genuine love; by truthful speech, and the
power of God; with the weapons of righteousness for the right hand (the
church) and for the left (the world); through honor and
dishonor, through slander and praise.
And for all this, do they look holy? Actually the
very opposite!
Pauls says We are treated
as impostors (as deceivers), and yet are true; this is
the truth. Jesus as His life are the truest of truths.
We are treated as
unknown (we’re ignored), and yet well known; they know
who we are. They just don’t like that we’re not like them. ->
We are treated as
dying (having no future, for all the outward troubles that afflict us!),
and behold, we live; because our true life is not in these
things. We have a life that cannot end!
We are punished
(for all this kindness!), and yet not killed; they can’t take
away our life in Christ.
We are treated as
sorrowful (as ignorant, stupid, gullible, mentally ill people to be
pitied), yet always rejoicing; in this life that Christ has given
us!
We are treated as
poor, yet making many rich; because we are rich with the true riches of
Christ.
We are treated as
having nothing (because our riches cannot be seen; they are not of this
world and life), yet possessing everything - because we are
baptized children of God.
And this is now the life we have, in
Jesus. The one who stood with us, the one who hung for us, and who rose and
lives for us. So we stand with each other. Parents with their children,
and when their parents get older, children with their parents. Spouses,
friends, neighbors, fellow believers. It won’t be easy. It might not look like
much. But it’s not for nothing that Jesus died for us and forgives us and gives
us a new life. It’s not so we can have an easy life, but a better
life. A life with Him and in Him, both now and forever.
And that’s why the Church has commended prayer,
fasting, and almsgiving during this season of Lent. Not for us to earn favor
from God; we can’t. Not for us to look holy; we’re not. Not to be hypocrites,
as if by doing these things we are better than others. Nope, nope, and nope. It’s
because in these ways we stand with others. Joining them in their
troubles, helping as we can, and lifting them to God.
That’s what my mother did for me. She helped me,
stood with me, and showed me a better way. Mother Church is doing the same for
us. That repenting of our sins, we are pointed to the Father, Son, and Holy
Spirit who forgives us and raises us up to a better life. A new and eternal
life. Now. As Paul said: Behold, now is the favorable time;
behold, now is the day of salvation. Now! Don’t put it
off. Don’t wait. Don’t look for an escape. Behold, now your Jesus
is here for you, His Body and Blood are here for you, His life is here for you.
Come, eat and drink. And then go in His peace and joy, and stand
with those in need. Even if no one knows. Even if no one sees. Your Father
does.
And your Father who sees in
secret will reward you.
In the Name of the Father, and of the (+) Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.